feat(remote): host-unreachable banner, manual wake, and native MAC wake-on-LAN

The reactive wake (typing into a session whose host slept) left the state invisible:
nothing told the user the machine was asleep, and with no wake target configured
there was nothing to do about it. Adds:

- RemoteHost.wakeMac (comma-separated) - Codeman builds and broadcasts the magic
  packet itself (UDP port 9), so the common case needs no external script. The
  existing wakeCommand stays as the explicit override.
- GET /api/sessions/:id/reachability - probes (throttled, cached, and it never
  wakes) and reports HOW the host can be woken, or that nothing is configured.
- POST /api/sessions/:id/wake - wakes, waits, reattaches the pane and flushes
  buffered input; 400 with a routable message when no target is configured.
- The amber host-unreachable banner + its 'Wake' / 'Configure WoL' action, and a
  small config dialog that saves via PUT /api/remote-hosts/:id.
- RemoteWakeDeps.resolveRemote: host config is re-resolved for LIVE sessions
  (throttled + cached), so saving the dialog takes effect without a restart.

src/web/public/styles.css

@@ -15306,6 +15306,18 @@ html[data-skin="daylight-blue"] .welcome-btn-tunnel.active:hover {
   background: rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.24);
 }
 
+/* Remote-host unreachable (host asleep, can be woken). Reuses the offline-banner
+   layout and children; amber instead of red because the Codeman session itself is
+   perfectly healthy — only the machine is asleep. */
+.host-wake-banner {
+  background: linear-gradient(90deg, #b45309, #92400e);
+}
+
+.host-wake-banner .offline-banner-retry:disabled {
+  opacity: 0.6;
+  cursor: default;
+}
+
 /* Above the mobile fixed header (1200) and modals (1300): this is a blocking
    "nothing works right now" state, and it only appears before any session
    state has loaded, so there is no modal underneath to bury. Stays below the