COD-106 shared/collaborative remote tmux sessions (window-size latest + shared badge)

Two Codeman clients attaching the same durable remote tmux session at different
viewports would fight: tmux sizes a window to the SMALLEST attached client by
default. Push `window-size latest` to the remote session config so the window
tracks the most-recently-active client instead, letting concurrent clients
coexist; surface the client count for a "shared · N" badge.

Reconciled onto upstream PR #145: #145 moved the durable remote session onto the
dedicated `-L codeman-remote` socket under a `codeman-ssh-` name and scoped every
tmux set-option PER-SESSION (`set -t <name>`, never `-g`) so a shared remote tmux
server's OTHER sessions keep their own prefix/mouse/sizing. The original COD-106
commit added `set -g window-size latest` (GLOBAL) on the old `-L codeman` socket —
a regression against #145's hardening. This commit layers the window-size feature
onto #145's structure as `set -t <name> window-size latest` (per-session, on the
codeman-remote socket). Test assertions updated to the per-session form
(remote-shared-sessions.test.ts) and the byte-identical launch-command test
(remote-ssh-options.test.ts) extended with the window-size line — which supersedes
the separate f09323c9 assertion fix (dropped: it targeted the global form and also
carried unrelated CLAUDE.md doc changes).

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

test/remote-ssh-options.test.ts

@@ -157,6 +157,8 @@ describe('COD-107 buildRemoteLaunchCommand — threads connection args', () => {
       `set -t ${remoteName} mouse off`,
       `set -t ${remoteName} prefix C-q`,
       'set -s escape-time 0',
+      // COD-106 — shared/collaborative sizing, per-session scoped (never -g).
+      `set -t ${remoteName} window-size latest`,
     ].join(' \\; ');
     // Connection args (with the default -o ConnectTimeout=10) sit after -t.
     const expected = `ssh -o BatchMode=yes -t -o ConnectTimeout=10 ${remoteSshTarget(baseRemote)} ${sh(tmuxInvocation)}`;