perf: optimize tab switching responsiveness

- Increase chunked write size from 64KB to 128KB (halves write time)
- Start buffer fetch immediately before other setup work
- Show "Loading session..." indicator during fetch
- Parallelize session attach with buffer fetch
- Fire-and-forget resize call (don't block on it)

Reduces perceived tab switch latency by ~50-100ms for large buffers.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

CLAUDE.md

@@ -310,11 +310,17 @@ for (const segment of segments) {
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 Note: Segments starting with `DEC_SYNC_START` are incomplete blocks awaiting more data. These are skipped (discarded if timeout forces flush).
 
-**chunkedTerminalWrite(buffer, chunkSize=64KB):**
+**chunkedTerminalWrite(buffer, chunkSize=128KB):**
 - For large buffer restoration (session switch, reconnect)
-- Writes 64KB per `requestAnimationFrame` to avoid UI jank
+- Writes 128KB per `requestAnimationFrame` to avoid UI jank
 - Strips any embedded DEC 2026 markers from historical data
 
+**selectSession() optimizations:**
+- Starts buffer fetch immediately before other setup
+- Shows "Loading session..." indicator while fetching
+- Parallelizes session attach with buffer fetch
+- Fire-and-forget resize (doesn't block tab switch)
+
 ### Optional Flicker Filter
 
 Per-session toggle via Session Settings. Adds ~50ms latency but eliminates remaining flicker on problematic terminals.