fix(build,docs): dependency preflight before the build wipes dist, docs drift for 1.40.0

- scripts/build.mjs resolves exceljs/dist/exceljs.min.js and fflate first,
  before tsc and before rm -rf dist/web/public. A tree whose node_modules
  predate those devDependencies (pulled but never ran npm install) used to
  fail in prepare-spreadsheet-assets.mjs with the live dist assets already
  deleted, so the running server served an index.html whose hashed files
  were gone. It now exits 1 with "run `npm install` first", nothing touched.
  test/spreadsheet-assets.test.ts pins the order, that the list covers every
  require.resolve in the prepare script, and runs a relocated copy of the
  build to prove the exit and message.
- CLAUDE.md: the header visibility rule's stock desktop default now lists
  Tiles (1180px and wider), which ships ON on desktop.
- docs/wiki/Agent-CLIs.md: "Before 1.36.0" becomes "Before 1.40.0" (four
  places); 1.36.0 never ships.
- docs/wiki/Home.md: the "Everything in the manual" index lists Tile Grid
  and Custom Model Endpoints, matching the sidebar. test/wiki-home-index
  fails when a sidebar page is missing from that index.
- docs/wiki/Tile-Grid.md: the Tiles default is off on tablets too since the
  touch-primary default landed, not only on phones.
- docs/browser-testing-guide.md: the fixed port table and new WebServer(PORT)
  snippet give way to the port-0 pattern (new WebServer(0, false, true),
  server.boundPort) that test/test-ports-guard.test.ts enforces; the
  examples that opened localhost:3000, the live instance, use BASE_URL.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

docs/wiki/Home.md

@@ -62,7 +62,9 @@ codeman web    # then open http://localhost:3000
 | Page                                       | What it answers                                            |
 | ------------------------------------------ | ---------------------------------------------------------- |
 | [The Dashboard](The-Dashboard)             | What is the UI telling me?                                 |
+| [Tile Grid](Tile-Grid)                     | How do I watch and drive several sessions side by side?    |
 | [Agent CLIs](Agent-CLIs)                   | Which agent should this session run, and how do I set it up? |
+| [Custom Model Endpoints](Custom-Model-Endpoints) | How do I point a session at my own OpenAI-compatible endpoint? |
 | [Working With Files](Working-With-Files)   | How do I read, edit, and attach files?                     |
 | [Input And Voice](Input-And-Voice)         | How do I talk to an agent, including by voice?             |
 | [Mobile Guide](Mobile-Guide)               | How well does this work on a phone?                        |