feat: comprehensive codebase improvements (cleanup, logic, performance)

Code Cleanups:
- Consolidated PlanTaskStatus and TddPhase types to types.ts
- Standardized node: prefix for Node.js builtin imports
- Fixed timer type to NodeJS.Timeout in respawn-controller

Logic Improvements:
- Fixed AI check race condition with UUID tracking in respawn-controller
- Added comprehensive _isStopped guards in session timer callbacks
- Made RalphTracker reset events non-reentrant via process.nextTick()
- Improved SessionManager mutex pattern reliability

Performance Optimizations:
- Fixed pendingToolCalls memory leak with TTL cleanup in subagent-watcher
- Improved LRUMap.newest() from O(n) to O(1) with _newestKey tracking

Documentation:
- Enhanced README antiflicker section with 6-layer technical details

Version: 0.1441

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

package.json

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 {
   "name": "claudeman",
-  "version": "0.1440",
+  "version": "0.1441",
   "description": "The missing control plane for Claude Code - run 20 autonomous agents with real-time monitoring and session persistence",
   "type": "module",
   "main": "dist/index.js",