fix(omp,remote): pin remote conversations on respawn so ctrl-d/ctrl-c resumes instead of relaunching fresh

Two independent defects made ANY clean exit from a remote SSH session (user
ctrl-d or ctrl-c, or a dropped pane) relaunch the agent as a NEW conversation:

1. SSH-remote claude was launched as a bare `claude --dangerously-skip-permissions`,
   so the remote-respawn path (COD-108 reattachRemote re-running the idempotent
   launch command) started a fresh conversation every time. Pin it to the
   deterministic Codeman session id, mirroring the docker-claude shape
   (claudeDockerPaneCommand): `--session-id <id>` to create, with the
   `|| --resume <id>` fallback so the idempotent re-run resumes instead of
   erroring with "already in use". A per-host commands.claude override still wins.

2. OMP --resume pinning silently degraded to ambiguous `--continue` whenever a
   case path ended in a trailing slash (e.g. remote `remotePath` stored verbatim
   as `/home/user/dotfiles/`): mangleOmpWorkingDir produced `-dotfiles-` while
   omp persists sessions under `-dotfiles`, readdirSync returned null for an
   existing dir, and findLatestOmpSessionId/resolveAndClaimOmpSessionId never
   matched. Normalize the trailing slash before mangling (new exported
   stripTrailingSlash) and compare the session header cwd against the same
   normalized value.

Both were found live 2026-08-29 on a remote OMP/Claude node: ctrl-c and ctrl-d
behaved identically, both relaunching a fresh session.

src/utils/omp-session-resolver.ts

@@ -22,6 +22,23 @@ import { join, sep } from 'node:path';
 /** A real OMP session file is `<ISO-ish-timestamp>_<uuid>.jsonl`; only the uuid matters here. */
 const OMP_SESSION_FILE_PATTERN = /^.+_([a-zA-Z0-9-]+)\.jsonl$/;
 
+/**
+ * Strip a trailing `/` from a workingDir unless it is the root itself.
+ *
+ * Case paths routinely end in `/` — a remote case's `remotePath` is stored
+ * verbatim (e.g. `/home/user/dotfiles/`) — but omp persists sessions under
+ * the slash-less mangle (`-dotfiles`) with a header `cwd` of
+ * `/home/user/dotfiles`. Without normalization, the trailing slash survives
+ * the mangle (`-dotfiles-`), `readdirSync` returns null for a directory that
+ * exists, and OMP respawn pinning silently degrades to the ambiguous
+ * `--continue` (found live 2026-08-29: a remote OMP ctrl-c relaunched a fresh
+ * conversation instead of resuming). Exported so the same normalization is
+ * used for the header-`cwd` comparison in {@link resolveAndClaimOmpSessionId}.
+ */
+export function stripTrailingSlash(workingDir: string): string {
+  return workingDir.length > 1 && workingDir.endsWith('/') ? workingDir.slice(0, -1) : workingDir;
+}
+
 /**
  * Mirrors `omp`'s own directory mangling. Confirmed empirically against real
  * `~/.omp/agent/sessions/` directory names (2026-08-27): unlike Claude Code's
@@ -45,8 +62,9 @@ export function mangleOmpWorkingDir(workingDir: string): string {
   // omp's actual behavior on a symlinked-home setup; guessing wrong here would
   // trade one silent mismatch for a different one.
   const home = homedir();
+  const normalized = stripTrailingSlash(workingDir);
   const relative =
-    workingDir === home || workingDir.startsWith(home + sep) ? workingDir.slice(home.length) : workingDir;
+    normalized === home || normalized.startsWith(home + sep) ? normalized.slice(home.length) : normalized;
   return relative.replace(/\//g, '-');
 }
 
@@ -183,7 +201,9 @@ export function resolveAndClaimOmpSessionId(workingDir: string): string | null {
     }
     if (mtimeMs <= newestMtime) continue;
     const header = readOmpSessionHeader(filePath);
-    if (!header || header.cwd !== workingDir || claimedOmpSessionIds.has(header.id)) continue;
+    // Compare against the slash-normalized workingDir: the session's own
+    // workingDir may carry a trailing slash while omp's header cwd never does.
+    if (!header || header.cwd !== stripTrailingSlash(workingDir) || claimedOmpSessionIds.has(header.id)) continue;
     newestMtime = mtimeMs;
     newestId = header.id;
   }