refactor: codebase cleanup — dead code, regex helper, centralized constants, tests

- Remove unused validateTokenCounts/validateTokensAndCost exports and PlanPhase type alias
- Add execPattern() helper to eliminate 8 repetitive .lastIndex=0 + exec() loops
- Centralize 11 magic number constants into config/ai-defaults.ts and config/server-timing.ts
- Remove stale src/tui from tsconfig.json exclude
- Fix CLAUDE.md inaccuracies (session helpers, app.js line count, module count)
- Add 316 new tests: LRUMap (38), StaleExpirationMap (42), BufferAccumulator (33),
  respawn helpers (142), system-routes expansion (11→61)

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 <noreply@anthropic.com>

tsconfig.json

@@ -23,5 +23,5 @@
     "allowUnusedLabels": false
   },
   "include": ["src/**/*"],
-  "exclude": ["node_modules", "dist", "src/tui"]
+  "exclude": ["node_modules", "dist"]
 }